Three Headed Dragon

It is important for men to remember that as woman grow older, it becomes harder for them to maintain the same quality of housekeeping as when they were younger. When you notice this try not to yell at them. Some are oversensitive and theres nothing worse than an oversensitive woman.

My name is Ron. Let me relate how I handled the situation with my wife Julie. When I took early retirement last year, it became necessary for Julie to take a full-time job, both for extra income and for the health benefits that we needed. Shortly after she started working, I noticed that she was beginning to show her age. I usually get home from the gold course about the same time she gets home from work.

Although she knows how hungry I am, she almost always says she has to rest for half an hour or so before she starts dinner. I dont yell at her. Instead I tell her to take her time and just wake me when gets dinner on the table. I generally have lunch in the Mens Grill at the club so eating out is not reasonable. Im ready for some home cooked grub when I hit that door.

She used to do the dishes as soon as we finished eating. But now its not unusual for them sit on the table for several hours dinner. I do what I can by diplomatically reminding her several times each evening that they wont clean themselves. I know that she really appreciates this as it seems to motivate her to get them done before she goes to bed.

Another symptom of aging is complaining, I think. For example, she will say that it is difficult for her to find time to pay the monthly bills during her lunch hour. But, boys, we take them for better or worse so I just smile and offer encouragement. I tell her to stretch it out over two or even three days. That way she wont have to rush so much. I also remind her that missing lunch completely now and then wouldnt hurt her any (if you know what I mean). I like to think tact is one of my strong points.

When doing simple jobs, she seems to think she needs more rest periods. She had to take a break when she was only half finished mowing the yard. I try not to make a scene. Im a fair man. I tell her to fix herself a nice, big, cold glass of freshly squeezed lemonade and just sit for a while. And, as long as she is making one for herself, she may as well make one for me too.

I know that I probably look like a saint in the way that I support Julie. Im not saying that showing this much consideration is easy. Many men will find it difficult. Some will find it impossible! Nobody knows better that I do how frustrating women get as they get older. However, guys, if you just use a little more tact and less criticism of your aging wife because of this article, I will consider that writing it was well worthwhile. After all, we are put on this earth to help each other.

Signed,

Ron

EDITORS NOTE: Ron died suddenly on May 27th. The police report says that he was found with a Calloway extra long 50-inch Big Bertha Driver II golf club rammed up his rear, with only 2 inches showing. His wife Julie was arrested and charged with murder; however, the all-woman jury found her Not Guilty, accepting her defence that he accidentally sat down on it suddenly.